Italy wedding with bride and groom exchanging vows in countryside vineyards

Married in Tuscany: Intimate Real Bride Destination Wedding

Italian Chic Bridal Style

Imagine your wedding in a one-of-a-kind venue, where the charm of history and the beauty of nature come together to create an enchanting and unforgettable setting in Tuscany. Picture exchanging vows amidst rolling hills, with centuries-old architecture providing a romantic backdrop, and vineyards stretching as far as the eye can see. The warm Tuscan sun bathes the scene in golden light, while the gentle breeze carries the scent of cypress trees and blooming flowers. This magical atmosphere sets the stage for a celebration of love that will remain in your hearts forever.

white daisy wedding bouquet with bride in mantilla veil in downdo hair
small vow books in white with lace Italian veil and solitaire diamond engagement rings
fall wedding in Italy with loose curled hair down and bride waving lace fan

Where Do you Even Start When Planning a Small Wedding in Italy?

When planning an intimate wedding, hiring a wedding planner is the most important part of the process. You want everything to feel seamless and stress-free, especially for a destination wedding that is across the continent.

To start, pick the region of Italy where you envision your wedding. From there, search for local wedding planners. Look at their websites, read reviews on platforms like Google, The Knot, Wedding Wire, and other wedding-related sites to get a sense of their experience and approach. Create a shortlist of about 10 planners who stand out based on their style and feedback from previous clients.

Once you have a list, send each of them a fairly generic email to request more information about their availability and services. After hearing back, I scheduled video calls with the planners who seemed like a good fit. 

A deep dive into Reddit shows that the going rate is around €4000, which may cover several days of activities for our guests, as well as planning the wedding itself and arranging our lodging for a 10-day stay. Having such a small guest list allows you to focus more on creating meaningful, personalized experiences for everyone. For example, instead of hiring a large catering company, you can explore a chef who will create bespoke meals for your group throughout the celebrations.

Trust your gut when you find someone who truly understands your vision and makes you feel at ease. The right planner will make all the difference!
romantic bloom Italian lace fingertip veil with ivory trim as bride gets ready in Italy
abbazia san pietro in valle Italy wedding with bride in mantilla wedding veil
small Tuscany wedding in a villa with bride wearing one blushing bride mantilla bridal veil

What to Wear for your Italian Wedding

For a wedding in Italy, brides should focus on elegance, comfort, and the romantic setting. Choose a dress that suits the venue—whether it's a historic church, villa, or beach—with lightweight, breathable fabrics like silk chiffon or lace. A mantilla veil or cathedral-length veil works well for traditional settings, while shorter veils are perfect for outdoor or coastal weddings.
lace knee length bridal veil for Tuscany destination wedding as bride and groom embrace
sunset Italy wedding at villa for small wedding
bride in lace mantilla wedding veil and matron of honor in black skinny scarf
Opt for practical shoes like block heels or flats, especially for cobblestone streets, and keep accessories simple and timeless. Hair and makeup should be soft and natural to match Italy's effortless elegance. Be mindful of modesty for church ceremonies, and consider adding Italian-inspired touches like lace or designer accessories. Ultimately, aim for a refined, romantic look that reflects the beauty of your surroundings.
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exchanging vows in small villa Italy wedding hotel with bride wearing lace bridal vale
wedding dinner in Italy outdoors in villa courtyard with bride wearing lace veil
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